We all want results in the gym—more strength, better endurance, a leaner physique. But the truth is, the progress we crave doesn’t come from doing what’s easy. It comes from doing what we resist. The exercises we avoid, the disciplines we neglect, and the challenges we sidestep are often the exact things that would unlock our greatest potential.

Facing the Hard Stuff
Think about the movement you dread the most. Maybe it’s squats because they expose your weakness in the legs. Maybe it’s deadlifts because they demand total-body effort. Or perhaps it’s high intensity intervals because it pushes your lungs and heart to their limits. Whatever it is, avoiding these movements is also avoiding the results they bring.
That’s where the “magic” lies. Not in the comfortable routines or the easy workouts, but in the struggle. Strength, endurance, and transformation don’t come from playing it safe—they come from embracing the work that feels hardest.
Why We Avoid Certain Workouts
Avoidance in the gym often stems from three things:
1. Discomfort – It’s human nature to resist pain and fatigue. But growth requires discomfort. Every rep that burns, every weight that feels heavy, and every sled push that makes your lungs scream is forging a stronger version of you.
2. Weakness Exposure – It’s humbling to confront our weak points. If you struggle with pull-ups, you might be tempted to skip them. But by working through that weakness, you build true strength.
3. Fear of Failure – No one wants to look weak, slow, or inexperienced. But failing is part of the process. The strongest lifters, fastest runners, and most skilled athletes all started as beginners who struggled.
Lean Into the Resistance
Instead of avoiding the tough stuff, challenge yourself to face it head-on. If mobility work is your weak point, commit to improving it. If heavy lifts intimidate you, start light and build up. If conditioning gasses you out, make it a priority. Over time, the things that once felt impossible will become your strengths.
The magic isn’t in the shortcuts or hacks—it’s in the hard, unglamorous work. So the next time you find yourself dodging a movement or dreading a workout, remember: that’s exactly where the real progress is waiting.
Lean into the resistance. That’s where transformation happens.
Stay STRONG,
Coach Frank
